Friday, 26 May 2017

Response to Anonymous (AKA CYBER BULLY)

Wow!!! I can't believe the response I got to my blog. It has been the first time that I have had comments at all so was quite thunderstruck this morning to find t he response I did. I obviously hit a nerve in someone ( and I know who the someone is despite them hiding behind the cowardly name of anonymous).

What I am most amazed about that I obviously am on someone's mind enough and made a big enough impact to get and equally big response- albeit a negative one. In case they can't tell, I am letting go of negativity and embracing positivity which might be a lesson for Anonymous to learn as well. Again, perhaps Anonymous could also look at themselves and see if they are perfect. Obviously they think they are. Well bully for you. Your comments are really a low blow in my opinion and totally uncalled for. And hey they aren't even original! Please at least have the guts to be original.....or perhaps you can't think for yourself? Don't think I don't blame myself everyday for where I am in my life in general and more specifically with my horse I do, I am trying to do something about it.....

"Anonymous" obviously missed the whole point of my entry on pondering a question. Anonymous is all about me being to blame for my issues... and hey I do believe that was the thread of my entry. How I was accepting responsibility for the decisions I have made and am trying to rectify them. How I had made poor decisions and didn't trust my instincts and gut soon enough.

Anyone who really needs to use a public forum or social media to bash people to make themselves feel  better then another-- there is a word for you-- CYBER BULLY. Anyone who posts 9 times under the same name ( Anonymous) with every entry along the same vein is the same person make no mistake. You know, maybe one entry would have been legitimate as each is allowed an opinion- but to post 9 times is a bit extreme and enters the realm of bullying. Although you will likely say "Oh there she is  playing victim again"-- well sorry but you turned me into the victim yourself so you have only yourself to blame by bullying on social media. 

You have been successful though in taking away my joy and happiness of my blog. And yes, I am sitting here with trembling hands and heart pounding and tears welling because THAT is the type of person I am. Soft and loving and a dreamer.And I'd rather be that type of person that the type who would pull a flower out of the ground and rip its petals off just so someone who enjoys the flower can't  anymore.Hope you feel very proud of yourself...Small mindedness in its extreme. Your comments come from a mean and nasty frame of mind, closed heart.... not the openness of heart and soul and love that my entries come from.I feel very sorry for you. And yes just yesterday I posted how I am learning to let go of negativity and forgive. So to really tick you off, I am going to do that. You obviously are not quite emotionally developed yet, and so I will forgive you as I would a child. If you ever choose to put out an olive branch of friendship I would accept. Because life is too short to harbour hatred and malice.  


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